Saturday, February 27, 2010

I hate people who:

1) Are smelly.

): I hate sitting beside smelly people on the train or the bus because it's the most torturous shit that you'll ever have to go through. Worst still is when they really don't think they are smelly and continue inching towards you. I once had a school mate whom I had to stand behind for assembly who had terrible BO. I wanted to vomit and die every time we had an assembly. After which, I found every chance I had to skip assembly.

2) Does everything with an ulterior motive.

While I cannot deny that I do certain things with motives, I really dislike it when I realize that people does EVERYTHING with an ulterior motive behind them. Isn't it proper to do certain things out of your heart and not carry any motives behind these things? I especially hate hearing my friends say that they are only treating their parents well because they want money from them. You know what? Fuck you. If you don't have that basic respect for your parents, you don't deserve a single bit of money get it?

3) Are irresponsible

I have to say this. While I admire young and single mothers for daring to even give birth to their children despite social stigmas and financial burdens, I hate them for being so irresponsible in the first place. If you already know that you're only 16 and have no financial backups at all, why the fuck did you even decide to have unprotected sex? Don't you think it's fucking irresponsible to bring a new life in without being able to give him/her the best?

Toodles.

2 comments:

Beth said...

I agree with it all, especially #3.

I have personal experience with such situations, I wanna tell you about it but not in a comment. I'll write to you on facebook. :)

#2.. I think sometimes I'm guilty of not respecting my mom like when I'm angry at her, I post on facebook about how pissed off I am, etc. Some people who don't know me well (but I'm acquainted with) see my angry posts and they assume I'm just a terrible person--what they don't know is that although sometimes I lapse in proper respect for my mom, I love her and admire her and there's almost nothing I wouldn't do for her.

I used to have friends who were fake all the time toward their parents, they acted respectful but only because they were doing naughty things behind their backs and didn't want to lose the support (financial, emotional, whatever) of their parents, especially since they're still living at home. I think those people are just terrible. Being fake is never acceptable but more so, being fake to gain something is just shitty. :( In my case, my mom knows I have love and respect for her even though sometimes I might mouth off, she knows who I really am and what I expect from her (or a lack thereof) because honesty is one of the most important things in any kind of relationship.

Also, as an American I've developed this type of mindset where to some extent I believe respect is earned and not a given because people have a tendency to take things for granted. It sounds terrible when I say it out loud or type it but I think certain people have to develop this kind of mindset to prevent themselves from getting in trouble or hurt. (Although, even if you don't necessarily respect someone, it doesn't mean rudeness is OK. Some things are just common decency. :P)

Okay, my comment is really, really long.. sorry! :P Also, I really hope you don't feel like I was lecturing you.. I wasn't, I just felt like sharing a lot of thoughts. :)

Vil. said...

I read your message on Facebook and I really am very proud of you. (: And in the future, you can email me as well at toxic_illusion@hotmail.com. (:

Also, yes I do agree that people do not deserve to be respected unless they earned it. I have so many rude and disgusting "friends" whom I am by now not friends with anymore.

I hate fake people and I hate it even more when they display their fakeness to their parents.

It's so disgusting.

And about blogger, they didn't even reply me at all. >:(